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I am half blind in love

Love, love, love, you keep making me think...did I make the right decision? Is this the right one? Is this  where I can plant everything that is me and be welcomed. It almost always starts off feeling so perfect so in-sync just to eventually fade like some cheap clothes. Then sets in this heaviness in my stomach and in my entire body just feels like a burden, like I'm walking around in dirty clothes.  This gets even more difficult as time goes on, I find myself trying and trying and trying to mend things that I never broke in the first place. I find myself strategizing on how can I revive things back to where they were in the beginning but after a while I begin to notice the difficulty in this process.     Truly I was the only one who was trying to find solutions with every conflict, they've always just gone seeking someone else to mend them, someone else to do damage control. So I ever so often became the "instigator" who should be left alone, I'm not accountab...
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Fearing Change

                                       Fear of Change



Why do some people fear change?

                                                         Some people fear change because the outcome is unknown they believe that the outcome will impact them negatively. Like what if they lose control? Most people are used to their normal everyday routine so what if this change their routine causes them to lose control leaving some feeling of hopelessness. Most times change feels like walking on a tightrope blind folded, WHAT IF YOU FALL!?


 So people rather reject change. They rather remain wondering the unknown than change something and make a mistake which brings me to the next reason.

People are afraid of making mistakes!                          






mistakes can be quite stressing, hard to overcome the consequences can be unbearable and what if making a change causes a ripple effect (butterfly effect) in their life starting a life packed filled with negativity. What if tis change does not only affect them but everything and everyone around them? they could lose their friend, their job, a family member, or ever a loved one.

With change comes new skills to be learned and although might not want to admit the fact, some are scared that the wont be able transition very well.  They fear that they wont be able to accomplish their task.

So change is NEVER EASY but not all changes are negative some can impact our lives positively.


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